LETTER TO MY YOUNGER SELF: JIVANA HEYMAN

LETTER TO MY YOUNGER SELF: JIVANA HEYMAN

Letter to my younger self: Jivana Heyman

photo: SaritRodgers

PROFILES

BEN CLARK INTERVIEW

If you could write a letter to your younger self what would it say? We asked some amazing people in our community to write letters, and were blown away by the love, compassion and humor they shared. Jivana Heyman shares his letter here.

Dear Jivana,

Sending you love and support for your journey ahead. I know there will be challenging times, but you’ll find your way through. You have more strength than you realize. In fact, your biggest weakness is your self-doubt. The sooner you let it go, the more you’ll enjoy life, and the more service you’ll be able to offer the world. Embrace your queerness as quickly as you can, and as fully as possible. Being queer is a gift, not a curse.

Your youthful idealism is a strength, not a weakness. Keep on imagining a world full of peace and justice, even if they constantly tell you that you’re naive. In the end, the love and care you have for other people and for nature is all that really matters. Love your friends, family, and pets even more, but don’t become too attached at the same time. Nothing is permanent, and many of them will leave you, and many will die. 

Keep practicing yoga and meditation with your full heart, and start teaching as soon as you can. Don’t get stuck in imposter syndrome and wait so long to share the practice you love with your community. It’s a great way to deepen your practice and be of service simultaneously. (In fact, we’re going on 30 years of teaching in 2025!) Teaching yoga is the biggest gift you’ll receive. Appreciate it for what it is, and recognize the awesome power and responsibility that it brings. 

Remember that ethics are the heart of spirituality. They’ll protect you and keep you on the right track. In fact, the yamas, yoga’s ethical principles, are the protection that you need to navigate the challenges that life will continue to throw at you. They are like a shield to help keep you safe when things feel dangerous.

That reminds me–work on your boundaries! They are the key to everything. Love everyone, but don’t fall in love with everyone. Be open and welcoming, but don’t let people trample all over you. In fact, that’s my main message. Find a way to believe in yourself that is stable and grounded. I don’t mean that you should become egotistical; instead, feel your strength in your mind and body, and know that it’s a reflection of your spirit, which is shared with all beings. Allow your strength to be a vehicle for connection with others, rather than separation. 

In general, people are good, but that doesn’t mean you have to listen to them. Instead, listen to that small voice in your heart and don’t ever stop listening. Remember, meditation is the language of that voice, so the more you practice, the easier it will be to understand the messages that are coming from deep within you. Like sonar echoing in the deepest ocean, meditation will help you navigate the dark, treacherous waters of the world. 

You’ve got this!

Love,

Jivana

MONEY AT EVERY AGE

MONEY AT EVERY AGE

MONEY AT EVERY AGE


By: Shari Vilchez-Blatt

LIFESTYLE

PROFILES

BEN CLARK INTERVIEW

Did you know that women are statistically better at investing than men? Wouldn’t it be great if all women knew this and were able to build real generational wealth and craft their dream life?  

That’s what Official MoneyChick, Wendy Raizin, says and is empowering women with this knowledge.

Wendy is a former Wall Street Trader, current Chief Investment Officer, Owner of Commercial Real Estate Firm. She also has a luxury design business that keeps her creative juices flowing!  And now, co-creator of MoneyChick, an effort she’s been manifesting for years.  She’s passionate about educating women on the concepts of money, investing, being financially free, and giving them the power to get up and leave a job or a relationship whenever they want.  Because having your own money gives you boundless options. 

 

The theme of the issue is celebrating age, what are key things people can realistically do at each phase of life? What should a person be doing in their 30’s? 40’s? 50s?

In your 20’s-30’s 

  • Budget Analysis- make sure you know to a very close number the exact amount of money you spend each month and on what. Make a spreadsheet to track expenses or, if the word spreadsheet makes you queasy, just make a simple list. Include even the unexpected expenses like gifts or car repair, home maintenance, as well as the more obvious monthly payments like rent, mortgage, car, loans, and entertainment.
  • Establish Career Optional Income Strategy- If your job were to be gone tomorrow, what is your plan of action? In addition to that, even if your job is perfectly secure, what is your plan to switch lanes if you need or want to in the future?
  • Student Loan Review- if you have student loans, make sure you are aware of which banks, credit unions or government institutions they are with and how much you are paying in interest. Make sure you are up to date on these loans, including deadlines and payment schedules.
  • Retirement Plan options- hopefully, you are maxing out your 401K if your employer offers one, especially if they offer a match. If possible, you’ll also want to open a Roth IRA if you haven’t already done so. Try to put the maximum allowance into this account each year, $7,000 if you’re under 50 years old; $8,000 if you are over 50.
  • Education Fund Planning for Kids- If you are starting a family or thinking about starting one, you’ll want to educate yourself about available education savings plans in your state. Some states offer a prepaid savings plan for the state colleges, or you can consider a 529 plan from the federal government, that allows you to save for your child’s education expenses tax- free.
  • Career Benefit and Compensation Review- make sure you are taking advantage of all the benefits your company has to offer and review your compensation package to make sure it is in line with industry standards. If not, it may be time to negotiate an upgrade.

In your 40’s-50’s

  • Integrate Financial Planning Strategies-If you have the luxury of a financial advisor, they will be able to help you with this. But, if you choose to manage your money on your own, educate yourself enough to be able to make an overall strategy for your current lifestyle, while keeping in mind any future plans and goals you’ll want to reach.
  • Tax and Trust Strategies- At this mid-life stage, you should be aware of how taxes affect your overall income and how you might set things up for the next generation. If a trust makes sense for your family assets, consult a qualified trust attorney to create one that’s right for you.
  • Conduct and insurance review- check on your insurance policies and make sure they are in good standing.
  • Optimize Savings and Retirement Plan- if you haven’t gotten the most out of these plans in your younger years, look into Catch-up contributions, which allow you to put even more money away tax-free if you are over 50.
  • Establish a Rollover Strategy- If you’ve left retirement accounts at a previous workplace, make sure you rollover to your current account. Do not liquidate (sell) these positions. Just roll them over to your new employer or personal account if you are self-employed.
In your 60’s

In your sixties, you want to start to think about things like funding your passion project or projects, retirement and continued catch-up provisions. Budget analysis also still plays a role here as you figure out new income levels, as well as new standards of living and costs as you age. You’ll want to do a Social Security review and add that into your budget.  This is also the time when you may want to start think about making a wealth transfer plan. If you have accumulated some wealth along the way, how will you preserve it and pass it down to your chosen recipients when you no longer need the money. Continued tax and trust strategies will prevail here as well. Finally, you’ll want to consider philanthropic giving, if that is something you’re in a position to do.

1. This is similar to the first question but more specific: There are many options out there that can be overwhelming, should a person in their 30’s be doing the same investing/savings strategy as a person retired in their 60s? (ie, 401K, CD’s etc.

Not necessarily. While we are constantly recalculating our budgetary needs at different stages of life, each stage requires a totally different money strategy. For instance, in our 20’s we can take on more risk because if an investment goes south, we have more time to make up that loss. As we get closer to retirement age, we cannot afford to take on as must risk with our investments. Usually, we’ve accumulated more money at this older stage and putting that ‘life savings’ in too aggressive of an investment would not be a wise move. In our 30’s we might be dealing with childcare expenses and during retirement years, we might need more of an income generating strategy.

2. Is it ever “too late” to start saving/investing?

Just like it’s never too late to start moving your body, it’s never too late to start investing. True, earlier is better, but being on top of your financial situation is part of a healthy lifestyle. Money stress is still Stress and it is not good for our overall health and well-being.

3. For someone who may have a lot of debt in their lives or is using savings to launch/sustain a small business, and feels like saving money is not feasible at this time. What advice would you give them?

This is a complex question because specifics of each person’s business, debt and responsibilities can vary greatly. I would definitely recommend  that if you are in some type of high interest debt   to get out of that as soon as humanly possible. If your debt is charging you 20% interest for example, just paying that off is like making 20% return on an investment. Debt will weigh you down both mentally and physically. Even if you can’t pay off the entire amount, you can chip away one chunk at a time. You may even be able to call your creditors and negotiate better terms because at the end of the day, they would rather have some money now that wait years to get paid back.

4. Best financial advice anyone ever gave you?

Live below your means.  It still holds true. I started investing when I was 16 and someone told me then: Don’t think about what you might make, instead make sure you’ll be ok with what you might lose.

THE BIG QUESTION (one of the most popular):

Ways to start preparing for your future using only $500 (or whatever amount you think is best, I find a big issue is people think they can only start investing or thinking about future finances if they have a ton of money.

I want people to know that they don’t need a windfall of money to start. Even just $50-$100/month is better than nothing. It’s the habit that’s important. Think of your saving/investing habit like a muscle you need to strengthen and flex through practice. Get in the habit of putting away a percentage of your earnings every time. The more you do this, the more natural and automatic it will feel to you. Tiny fragments of investments add up over time like grains of rice. Before you know it, you have a decent amount to work with.

Having said that, I would not recommend risking your hard-earned money on risky investments that you don’t know a lot about. Start with an index fund like SPY, SPYG or VOO. These index funds track the biggest stocks in the market and allow you to participate in the big players without having to invest in individual stocks, which can be a bit riskier.The most important step is the first one. Don’t wait til you have a ton of money lying around. “I have so much extra money, I don’t know what to do with it”…said no one ever!

JILL MILLER INTERVIEW

JILL MILLER INTERVIEW

JILL MILLER INTERVIEW

By: Lauren Cap
Photos: Tune Up Fitness Worldwide
YOGA
Editors note: This article contains references to disordered eating.
In early 2013, I signed up for Jill Miller’s Yoga Tune Up® teacher training as a new yoga teacher looking to learn more about the body. This training, and many of the others under Tune Up Fitness, surpassed any curiosity I had about anatomy, fascia and movement.Now in my 40’s, interviewing Jill for this Celebrating Age themed issue, felt like perfect timing.

Jill Miller, C-IAYT, is a fascia expert, cofounder of Tune Up Fitness Worldwide Inc. and bestselling author of Body by Breath and The Roll Model. Here, she shares her thoughts on aging and how her life experiences shaped the course of the work she teaches today.

This issue is themed “Celebrating Age.” What are ways you celebrate your age?
I remind myself of all of the wisdom that has accumulated, which gives me perspective and it also has dampened a painful and unquenchable desire to strive. I think that striving is something that is definitely baked into our culture. (Not that I’m not continuing to want to strive or strive towards excellence or be the best that I can be.) It’s given me the ability to have gracious reflection, perspective, and it’s deepened my appreciation of love.

I also recognize that I’m not the baby anymore, and the benevolent responsibility as a human citizen to share with younger people and share with others. That has been a really delicious part of aging—realizing that people look up to me. Parenting has taught me a lot of that, but also being a business owner and a teacher of teachers has taught me that. You don’t age in isolation. You age in community, and you age in relationship to all these other age groups.

Can you tell us a little about the evolution of your yoga practice and how it brought you to Tune Up Fitness?
I started practicing yoga when I was around 11 or 12. My mom had brought home the Jane Fonda Workout video and the Raquel Welch yoga tape. We lived off-the-grid in a solar home outside of Santa Fe, New Mexico, so we didn’t have a television. These videos lit me up, and I became obsessed with them. What happened over the next 8 or 9 years of my life was a spiral of disordered eating, orthorexia, and using yoga as a way to regulate my nervous system. There was a certain point in college where I knew that my bulimia was absolutely not going away, and I needed help.

My roommate, who was pre-med, was taking the same pilates class as me. She would always be sore in her abs, and I was never sore. I had a feeling that the reason I was never sore was because I couldn’t feel my abs, and I was just bypassing them because I was bulimic. I had this disconnection from myself. So I confessed to my yoga teacher that I was bulimic, and that I felt numb in my abs. She showed me a prop that they use in the Iyengar space that looks like a hamburger bun stuffed with sand. She said, “put it on your belly and lay down and breathe into it.” It was absolute agony. But I finally felt. The pain that emerged connected the dots for me about what I was doing to myself with the bulimia. I started to wake up every morning and roll up a hand towel (which was a lot gentler than this bean bag) and I would lay on the towel and move it around my abdomen. What ended up happening was I was able to move beyond the bulimia. I attribute a lot of that in part to creating this connection from my guts, my heart, and my mind. The self-massage work has been instrumental for being able to locate myself and being able to locate my emotions. In the context of practice, I am practicing as safely as possible. But also while in myself and not bypassing myself or continuing to objectify myself the way I used to.

That’s an incredible story and very inspiring. I appreciate you sharing that. Can you explain to the reader what self-myofascial release is?
Self-myofascial release is using a tool to attempt to improve gliding motions between tissues, to improve overall mobility, eliminate pain, address muscle imbalances and improve one’s proprioception (the ability to know where you are in space). I use self-myofascial release to help people improve their embody map, which is that body’s sense of itself. This concretizing of your soma, your anatomy, so that you can be a better participant with what you intend with your movements. The self-myofascial release that I teach is called Roll Model Method®. I use soft, pliable rubber balls of different sizes to help people locate tissues, improve mobility, and transform pain. This is the work that I teach to clinicians, to sports and athletics communities, to the general population, people that don’t like yoga, people that love yoga. All sorts of people can benefit from self-myofascial release.

Because the science behind anatomy and movement changes so rapidly, how do you adjust your training and teaching to align with the new information? What are your thoughts on the people who challenge the effectiveness of rolling?
When people challenge the effectiveness, it’s really easy to counter because we have evidence. In the fascia research community, we’ve moved on from a lot of terms. For example, a lot of people get caught up in this term, “adhesions.” That’s really not frequently used anymore. We’ll hear people talk about agglomerations or lack of gliding or true visceral adhesions, but people don’t really talk about adhesions in a musculoskeletal way very often anymore. That is a term that I used to use because that’s what was used a decade ago. My book, The Roll Model, was written when that term was popular, but in the new book, Body By Breath, I have been able to update those terms and try to continue to evolve. Science is as much an art as it is a science, so we have to keep updating our terms and explain what we mean.

What is your recommendation for women over 40 who want to maintain longevity in their fitness routine and everyday life?
I am a manual movement medicine person! I believe (and the research shows) that load bearing exercise is so important for the aging body, especially with women over 40. The loss of estrogen is deleterious for every system of the body. However, you are working with the symptoms that come along with the disappearance of estrogen in your system, there is no good reason to not do load bearing exercise to continuously stress your muscles so that they stay healthy. We lose our fast twitch muscle fibers at a very fast rate as we age. We also lose our ability to generate power, which weakens the muscles and weakens the bones, so our connective tissues stiffen, and we are more likely to have ruptures and tears. It’s important to do load bearing exercise that is likely beyond yoga. Yoga is important for whole body motion as well as stability. It’s incredible as a mind-body exercise to enhance focus and induce the relaxation response.

The aging body also needs self-myofascial release. Self-massage can get into nooks and crannies of the body that, unbeknownst to you, aren’t being moved by your exercise. Therapy balls can create motion where motion is not occurring well and can also help you update your mind’s ability to connect to your tissues so you can get a more robust contraction. There’s really great evidence about rolling being able to improve a muscle’s ability to create torque or force generation as well as improving your body’s proprioception. Slips and falls are the highest leading cause of hip fractures, and hip fractures are the leading cause of death in aging bodies.

We want ankles that move well, and we want to have good reactive hips and strong bones in those hips, so if we do fall, we are less likely to fracture.

Is there anything else you like to share with the readers?
My newer book, Body by Breath is all about that journey through the gut to embodiment. What I realized when I started to teach these methods to other people is that I got lucky because I healed my eating disorder. But these were applications that ended up helping people with neck pain, with asthma, with chronic shoulder pain, and with low back pain. There were so many varieties of people that were helped by doing these types of gut, massage, rib cage massage applications, and now, I see it’s really quite an endless side-effect free application. The traction just blows me away. This simple thing. This sad little bulimic girl laying down in her dorm room trying to wrestle with what she was struggling with, but there is this universal application that is way beyond what I thought.


Learn more: tuneupfitness.com

WHEN YOGA IS NOT ENOUGH: ADAPTING YOUR PRACTICE FOR LONGEVITY AND SUSTAINABILITY

WHEN YOGA IS NOT ENOUGH: ADAPTING YOUR PRACTICE FOR LONGEVITY AND SUSTAINABILITY

WHEN YOGA IS NOT ENOUGH: ADAPTING YOUR PRACTICE
FOR LONGEVITY AND SUSTAINABILITY

By: Jai Sugrim C.S.C.S, L.M.T, J.Y.T
Photos: Greg McMahon
YOGA
As a longtime NYC Jivamutkti Yogi and Broome Street Temple Ashtangi, I had mastered all of the asanas with dedicated practice in my late 20s and through all of my 30s. I remember training up to five hours per day in the beginning of my yoga journey. For a 12-year stretch, I immersed myself in vinyasa yoga while abandoning the strength training and running which had been part of my holistic training as an athlete.  

However, at around age 40, I began to notice subtle but significant shifts in my body—changes that made me realize yoga alone wasn’t enough to sustain my well-being. Approaches to practice that once yielded success, were now causing injuries and frustration. I was a world-famous yoga teacher with a successful yoga TV show and teaching sold out, 75-person classes at the most popular studio in Manhattan. Why were asanas failing me? After coming to terms with the idea that I was now in the second half of life, and that my personal records were behind me, a new perspective dawned. 

We must remember that an important aspect to yoga is “letting go of our attachments,” and keeping a pliable, flexible mind. Taming my ego opened a deeper exploration into how to adapt my practice to support a more sustainable approach to mindful aging. I realized that I needed to re-integrate the strength training that focused on weak areas that yoga did not train, and cardiovascular training for toning my heart, that I did before my days in yoga began. 

There are supplemental practices and approaches to asana that will keep you practicing through every decade of life, as long as you remain open to changing your routine, shifting things around, and tweaking what needs to be tweaked.  

We Must Account for Age-Related Changes

As we age, our bodies undergo several transformations that can impact our yoga practice. Let’s explore four key things that change for all of us by age 40. 

Decreased Flexibility Due to Fascial Changes

As we age, the fascia—the connective tissue surrounding muscles and organs—becomes less hydrated and more rigid. Muscles that are draped upon other muscles, at the shoulders and hips, no longer slide as smoothly on top of one another as they once did. This leads to reduced flexibility and a diminished range of motion.

Reduced Muscle Mass and Strength

Known as sarcopenia, the loss of muscle mass and strength is common with aging. This loss of muscle mass brings with it a reduction of our metabolic rate, and increased body fat. 

Slower Recovery Times

Older bodies generally take longer to recover from physical exertion. This slower recovery can lead to overtraining and increased risk of injury if not properly managed. Doing long, grueling workouts every day will now lead to injury. 

Decreased Bone Density

With age, bone density often decreases, increasing the risk of fractures and falls. This change necessitates special attention to maintaining bone health through physical activity.

Solutions for a Sustainable Yoga Practice

  1. Addressing Decreased Flexibility: 

To counteract the effects of fascial rigidity, incorporate a comprehensive warm-up routine before your yoga practice. You can experiment with gentle dynamic stretches, mobility exercises, a brisk walk or slow jog, and breathwork to prepare the body and enhance flexibility. 

You can also try walking 10,000 steps per day, six days a week. This will keep your fascia from getting sticky, and maintain hip extension, while enhancing your basal metabolic rate. Walking is a low impact and  low cost, while providing high yield, high return on your investment. Walking 10,000 steps per day will keep the heart, your body’s engine, running smoothly as you age. 

Additionally, use myofascial release techniques, such as foam rolling, to maintain fascial elasticity. Self-massage is an incredible form of self-care and maintenance. 

  1. Combating Reduced Muscle Mass and Strength: 

The aging yogi must incorporate weight-bearing poses that involve weight-bearing on the arms and legs. Longer holds for downward dogs, planks, warrior asanas, and tree pose stimulate bone growth and strength. 

Bringing in resistance bands to warm up the body with rows and pulling motions, and doing core work before the start of your yoga sessions would be incredible for adding strength and toning up the body holistically. Perhaps warm up longer, and cut the length of your yoga practice to strike the balance between stability and flexibility.  

  1. Managing Slower Recovery: 

Master sleep. Get eight hours of it. Go to bed and wake up at the same time to tune the circadian rhythm of the organs. Proper rest will enhance the functioning of your androgenic hormones, which help you to recover from training sessions.

You can also incorporate restorative yoga practices, such as Yin Yoga and Yoga Nidra, to facilitate deeper relaxation and recovery. 

To resist the pull of gravity, you will have to engage in positive habits. Getting older can be paired with increasing wisdom and refinement of our personality.  

  1. Maintaining Bone Density: 

Lift heavy things in a variety of planes. Kettlebells, dumbbells, and medicine balls are great, but bodyweight exercises like high-rep air squats, push ups, and assisted pull-ups will do the trick. In the second half of life, frailty is a disease. Lift. Heavy. Things!!!! 

Two 30-minute weight lifting sessions per week will extend your health span, and will help to keep you on the yoga mat well into your golden years. 

As you integrate these practices into your life, you will find that it’s important to exercise six days per week. On the days you lift, you may skip vinyasa yoga and add static stretching or self-massage. On your vinyasa yoga days, you may add 10,000 steps. The idea is that your aging body will crave variety and stay happy when you mix things up. 

Embracing Change for a Lasting Practice

Adapting to these changes has transformed my yoga practice into a more holistic and sustainable routine. By integrating these supplemental practices, and doing less vinyasa yoga, I have been able to address the physical challenges of aging while continuing to enjoy the benefits of yoga. This approach has not only enhanced my physical health, but also provided me with a deeper understanding of how to care for my body as it evolves.

I feel the benefits of holistic training. My endurance and heart are addressed, my bones and tendons are cared for, and my mobility is at fulfilling ranges that provide freedom to do the activities I enjoy. 

Healthy aging is all about staying pain-free while remaining active. Doing splits, handstands, and placing our leg over the head becomes a low priority when we are older. 

For those of you in the second half of life, I encourage you to embrace these changes with a proactive mindset. Your yoga practice can remain a powerful tool for well-being, provided it is adjusted to meet your body’s new needs. By incorporating strength training, cardio, restorative practices, and mindful adjustments to your training program, you can maintain a vibrant and fulfilling yoga practice well into the future.

Remember, yoga is not just about the poses—it’s about nurturing your body and mind through every stage of life. By adapting your practice thoughtfully, you can continue to reap the rewards of yoga while honoring the unique needs of your aging body.

Learn more: theartofagingmindfully.com

INTERVIEW WITH DR. STEFFANY MOONAZ

INTERVIEW WITH DR. STEFFANY MOONAZ

INTERVIEW WITH DR. STEFFANY MOONAZ

PH.D., CMA, MFA, C-IAYT, E-RYT 500
FOUNDER OF YOGA FOR ARTHRITIS


By: Megan Twining

YOGA

Every one of us has a different story of how we found yoga. Often, new students come to my studio,  Sonder℠, located in the Washington D.C. area, because their doctor prescribed yoga to manage the aches and stiffness that seem inevitable as our bodies change. This truth led me to seek out advanced training as a yoga therapist which is how I was introduced to Dr. Steffany Moonaz. She is the founder of the Yoga for Arthritis organization, a certified yoga therapist, professor and research director at Southern California University of Health Sciences. Her philosophy is that everyone should have access to feeling as free as a dancer, even as our bodies change. She calls yoga a ‘whole person practice,’ a successful method for pain management and a way to access what matters most – a sense of self as we age. 

Thank you so much for being a part of this interview for the Celebrating Age issue. Can you tell us about your professional roles and background? 
I’m the research director at Southern California University of Health Sciences which trains integrative health professionals. I research the use of yoga for arthritis, chronic pain, and musculoskeletal conditions. I am also the founder and director of Yoga for Arthritis, an organization that I started over 20 years ago. The landscape of yoga was very different then because there were not a lot of ways for people living with arthritis to access safe, accessible, appropriate, evidence-based yoga practices. I train yoga teachers and yoga therapists, provide yoga to people who are living with arthritis, mentor emerging professionals, and I advocate for access and a change in the conception of how we manage arthritis and chronic pain. 

I have a PhD in public health from Johns Hopkins School of Public Health, where I also worked in the rheumatology department. That’s where my training and background in arthritis and rheumatic diseases comes from. I also have a Master of Fine Arts in dance, which is relevant in the way I think about movement and the moving body and expression. I’m also a certified health and wellness coach, yoga teacher, and yoga therapist.

I love your connection to dance. You’ve mentioned the balance between stability and free range of motion that happens simultaneously in dance and yoga; can you elaborate on this?
In my memoir, Yoga Therapy for Arthritis, I quote a song that says, “Are we human or are we dancers?” Which is something that my son and I ask each other all the time. What we’re talking about is the otherworldliness, the different ways of being in the world. When you have access to that, it’s transformative. It doesn’t require any particular movement ability to find ways of relating to and being in embodied experience.

I know you spent some time in an ashram, and it was there you experienced real clarity about how to serve through yoga. Can you please share more on this?
There are many yoga teachers who do not intend to become yoga teachers; they pursue a yoga teacher training program out of a desire to dive deeper into their own yoga practice and their own experience of yoga, to learn more about yoga in a deeper, different way. I was one of those. So when others come to me for training and say, “I don’t really want to teach,” I chuckle. Yoga was the one thing that I did only for me. 

In my early 20s, I was teaching at multiple universities. I was already leading and training in a variety of ways, but my yoga was mine. I went to an ashram because I wanted to have an immersive experience of yoga. When you’re trained to be a yoga teacher at an ashram, you are immersed in the yogic lifestyle along with the yogic teachings for the duration. Since this and many other experiences after, I am certain of Divine guidance.

I never would have gone to that yoga teacher training to become a leading expert on the science of yoga as it applies to arthritis and chronic pain. But clearly, I needed that training along with everything else that happened since. It was because of that training that I was hired as a research assistant in the Johns Hopkins Arthritis Center. A researcher there took a yoga class and thought that it was really a powerful, viable option for the patients with arthritis in their clinic and needed somebody who was a yoga teacher to partner with in order to begin studying this. Going to the ashram gave me the tools that I needed beyond asana, the physical postures. In the West, a lot of times, that’s what we think about when we think about yoga. But it is such a small fraction of what yoga is, and being at the ashram allowed me to get a broader understanding of the expansive toolbox of yoga, so that when I did take it into the clinic, I could optimize its usefulness for the patients there and beyond.

You mentioned that arthritis is a “whole person” disease. What does that mean? I get the impression that everyone’s going to get arthritis to some degree or another as we age. I first want to say that when we’re talking about the arthritis that is associated with aging, we’re generally thinking about one specific form of arthritis called osteoarthritis. Osteoarthritis is the most common form of arthritis, and the prevalence of osteoarthritis does increase dramatically with age. Age is a primary predictor of osteoarthritis onset. Arthritis, though, is an umbrella term that includes over 100 different diseases, and it can affect people anywhere in the lifespan.
There is juvenile arthritis in many forms that can affect babies and toddlers all the way up to the onset of arthritis at the end of life and everything in between. Each of these forms of arthritis has different characteristics and different risk factors. If you are fortunate to live long enough, then your body tissue will start to age. What starts to happen is that we have cell turnover all of the time. Our body is shedding old cells and making new ones throughout the lifespan.

When we’re young, we grow more cells than we lose. That’s the growth that happens in early age. We have some homeostasis in the middle, where it’s an even balance. Then at a certain point, there’s more death than birth. We are losing connective tissue in the joints at a faster rate than we’re building it. We could think about that as being a natural consequence of aging, but there are reasons that it happens to some people earlier and more than others.

We are all losing connective tissue past a certain age, but not everyone feels it. Not everyone suffers from the experience of it because there actually is very little relationship between the amount of tissue damage and the symptoms that we experience. There are some people who have a lot of pain from very little tissue damage, and there are other people who have very little pain with a lot of tissue damage. You don’t go to your doctor about your knees unless they hurt. You may have what we would call pre-arthritic changes. There may actually be a wearing down of the cartilage in some of your joints, but because you’re not experiencing symptoms, it doesn’t really affect you.

And this gets to the “whole person” aspect of arthritis, because when you do have symptoms of arthritis, which for osteoarthritis the most prominent symptom generally is pain. But there’s also stiffness, swelling, fatigue, disability, and changes in the activities we’re able to do. All of this is different depending on the experience of arthritis, but also all of it can be changed without changing the tissue damage in the joint. While the experience of arthritis is a whole person experience, there are ways to address it that span all of the aspects of a person, too.

Oftentimes, when people hear that I study the effects of yoga for people with arthritis they go, “Oh, well, yoga is movement, and movement is good for arthritis. Arthritis is a disease of the musculoskeletal system. Movement is good for the musculoskeletal system.” What they fail to realize is actually what yoga offers to a person living with arthritis. Yes, it can directly affect the joints, but goes so far beyond changing the structure or the tissue and how it’s organized in the joint.

Can you share how yoga is a “whole person” practice?
Arthritis has no cure. It’s irreversible. You can’t build back the cartilage that you’ve lost, but you can strengthen the stabilizing muscles that surround the joint and help improve the integrity of the joint even while it’s losing tissue. We can slow the progression of the disease. We can also maintain physical function, even if we’re losing joint tissue. We can also use the tools of yoga to help change things like pain. People think of pain as being in the part of the body where you’re feeling it, but pain is actually a set of signals between the brain and the body. 

For example, if we’re talking about the knees, there’s a message that goes from the knee to the brain, that is the ascending pain pathway. Then there’s another signal that goes from the brain back to the knee, that’s the descending pain pathway. This is happening in the nervous system, not the cartilage, and there are all kinds of tools that we can use in yoga that change the functioning of the nervous system, including things like breath control. When we deepen the breath, we’re changing the state of the nervous system, which affects pain even if the cartilage doesn’t change. Tools of yoga can also help to lift our mood and can help change our mindset.

Do you have any success stories?
So many! There was one situation in a Yoga for Arthritis class at the Johns Hopkins Clinic with a patient who had a systemic inflammatory form of arthritis called rheumatoid arthritis, but she believed that she had osteoarthritis. The treatments are completely different, and she was not receiving the medical treatment that she needed. She was middle-aged and very disabled. She had a very difficult time getting around, let alone engaging in a physical yoga practice.

She was able to get down to the floor with some difficulty but could not get back up to standing on her own. One day, I walked over to support her and reached out my hand, and she waved me off without saying anything. It was clear that she wanted to do this herself. And so she was leaning forward, had one foot up, one knee down, struggling, but was finally able to bring herself up to standing. I was nervous about everybody staring at her struggling to get up, but as soon as she got to standing, the whole room burst out in applause.

It was such an important moment for her. It was the first time that she had been able to get up from the floor in as long as she could remember, and it also emphasizes the importance of community and support in that experience. 

If there were someone reading this that is suffering from arthritis and is looking at yoga as a potential means to help themselves, are there any pieces of advice? 
Something you can do immediately by yourself, without any assistance, is to breathe in a way that can help to manage pain. We all have experiences in our lives of using our breath to manage pain. We do it automatically, and don’t even think about it. An obvious example for anyone who has gone through childbirth, because you definitely are using your breath for pain management there. 

We can shift our energy by changing how we breathe. If you put a hand on your belly and a hand on your chest, you should notice that as you breathe in, your whole torso expands, and as you breathe out, it softens. The first thing is, if your belly doesn’t move when you breathe, change that. Some of us who are feeling stressed are breathing high up into the chest, we’re holding tension in our abdomen as a coping strategy, we’re not getting the benefit of full deep breathing. So that’s one way to start, just take deeper breaths, allow your belly to move. 

Another way is to slow down the exhale. Take a deep breath in and then let it out nice and slow, it helps to take us out of stress response into relaxation response. Stress makes pain worse, and pain makes stress worse. If we start breathing more deeply, and especially lengthening that exhale when we’re feeling stressed or when we’re feeling pain, you can feel an immediate shift in your state of being with just that simple technique. If there’s one thing that you’re going to do, it is to breathe more deeply. 

If you also want to get started with a yoga practice, with that whole big toolbox of postures and breathing practices, mindfulness, meditation, relaxation, applied philosophy, and all of the rest, you’re going to want a teacher. You want to look for a teacher who has training and experience working with people who have different needs, who have physical limitations. It can be called a lot of different things, yoga for seniors, chair yoga, or gentle yoga, but instead of just going by what the name of the yoga class is, contact the studio and ask, “Hey, I have arthritis. It’s hard for me to get down to the floor. Is this class appropriate for me?” Or, “I’m new to yoga, I’m a little bit older. Do you have a class that would be a good place to start?” If you can’t find a class that’s right for you, you might want to start one-on-one with a yoga teacher or a yoga therapist who can help you learn the basic skills of how to practice yoga at home, or how to go into a yoga class and know and keep yourself safe no matter what the instruction is that’s being provided.

If you try a class and it is not a good fit, don’t assume that there is no yoga for you. It’s the same when you go to a medical visit and you think “this is not a good fit.” You don’t give up on medical care, you go find someone else.

Is there anything else that you would like to share on the topic of “celebrating age.”
I think that it’s unfortunate that in our society, we tend to devalue the wisdom of older people. We have a lot of work to do to change that societally, but we can change that ourselves by appreciating our own wisdom as we age, by seeing all that we gain instead of only looking at what we lose. We’re gaining far more than we’re losing as we get older, and we can be such an asset to our families, to our communities. 

In yoga, there is this idea of different stages of life. And as we get older, we move from growing and developing as individuals to creating families, creating careers or creating households. Then we move into this stage of life that is stepping back and passing the torch to the next generation. Being mentors, being guides, being spiritually wise, intellectually wise. No matter what, you have a unique perspective to offer. Yoga provides a model for how we can show up as we get older in a way that is fulfilling to us and also useful to the world.

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LETTER TO MY YOUNGER SELF: EDDIE STERN

LETTER TO MY YOUNGER SELF: EDDIE STERN

Letter to my younger self: Eddie Stern

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BEN CLARK INTERVIEW

If you could write a letter to your younger self what would it say? We asked some amazing people in our community to write letters, and were blown away by the love, compassion and humor they shared in our Celebrating Age issue.

Dear Eddie,

I have only a few suggestions for you. Looking back on your life, well, ours, I guess, you’ve done some cool things, and had a few missteps. Since you are 18 and just getting started, watch out for these things:

1. Listen to your conscience and gut a little more than
I did. If something doesn’t feel right, turn the other way. I didn’t listen as well as I should have and ended up in situations that caused a lot of pain for myself and others. Sometimes things can’t be avoided, but I wonder where we would have ended up if we had listened more closely to my intuition in the moment.

2. Don’t start teaching yoga right away, like I did.
It’s true, you were asked to teach, but you also could have said no. Try saying no. Practice for a good 10 years or so, learn a little more, struggle a little more, and then after you’ve put in the inner work, start teaching. It will help with the troubles that arose in point 1.

3. Learn a second language right away,
Preferably an Indian language, since you are about to spend a lot of time in India. Don’t delay, and don’t lapse. Sanskrit doesn’t count, since we kept that up.

4. Not going to college was a great idea.
You’ll get a degree after 54, and there isn’t really anything between 18 and 54 that is going to demand that you need to have gone to college. All good.

5. Prioritize friends and family more than I did.
I got too caught up in work, and still am, to be honest. Don’t wait ‘til you’re almost 60 to do that. It’s time wasted. If you are diligent about a work schedule, work doesn’t ever need to become all-consuming.

6. Keep a journal.
You did for a while, then stopped. They are fun to look back on.

7. You’ve been great about physical health.
All good on food and exercise. But you ignore your emotions a little too much—get a therapist and figure some stuff out early on. We’ll be better for it when we get to my age.

8. If it hasn’t happened already, you’re going to have an apartment on Cornelia Street.
One night you’ll be lying in bed with your girlfriend, and she’s going to be challenging you on your looks—you had just dyed your hair black and green—and she said, “There’s no way you’re going to be dressing like this and doing your hair like this when you are 50.” And you are going to say, “Probably not, but that doesn’t matter. When I am 50, I am going to be the same, exact person I am right now; I might dress different, have different (or no, as it were) hair, but my awareness is going to be the same, and knowing who I am is going to be exactly the same as it is now. Only my appearance is going to change, but that is not me.” Guess what? This thought, one of our early, direct perceptions of witness consciousness, was 100% accurate. We are past 50. But the awareness of observer consciousness, the awareness that things change externally, but the inner being is constant, was the end of your yoga journey before we started actually doing yoga. When we did start to practice, it was just to learn things to remind us of that direct perception.

9. You’re not going to do this, but I’m going to tell you anyway:
never stop listening to punk rock, never let music not be your muse, and always let your heart be blown wide open by beauty and pain and sorrow in all of its forms.

10. When David Bowie tells you he’d like to do yoga with you, please follow up with him.
It’s going to happen, and you totally let fear get the best of you. Don’t!

11. Last but not least, please don’t use so much hairspray.
It’s bad for the environment, and it’s most likely (along with the hair bleach) going to make you go bald. Save the environment, save your hair. It’s not a vanity thing—you are actually going to be a lot warmer in the winter and conserve heat.

Love you, homie,

Eddie