Letter to my younger self: DJ TAZ RASHID

If you could write a letter to your younger self what would it say? We asked some amazing people in our community to write letters, and were blown away by the love, compassion and humor they shared. DJ Taz Rashid shares his letter here. Special thanks to DJ taz for also creating a special retro playlist just for his younger self you can access here.

Dear Taz,

Hey buddy, it’s your future self here, writing to you from 2025. I’m sure that must feel impossibly far in the distance as you prepare to enter high school there in 1996…I’m writing to you as an “older” man in my early 40s, to share with you some of the things I wish I had known when I was
your age.

First off, I want you to know that you’re doing great. The things you’re about to dive into and explore in high school and college will, believe it or not, end up shaping you in ways you can’t even imagine right now. As it all unfolds, try to pay attention to how you connect with people. The friends, teachers, and mentors you meet will open doors, challenge you, and inspire you. Listen to and learn from them, but stay true to yourself and always keep your word, even when it’s tough. Those qualities will become a compass that guides you through some of life’s most important moments.

I know it can feel like you must have it all figured out to show up as an adult in this world, but if there’s one thing I can stress: You don’t. Trust me on this. There’s power in exploration, in trying new things, in failing, and in letting curiosity lead the way. It can feel overwhelming to not know what’s coming next, but you’ll find that some of the most incredible opportunities come from stepping into the unknown. I’m not going to give you any specifics about your/our future, because honestly, the adventure is in the discovery. Just remember: it’s okay not to know exactly where you’re headed. Trust the process and let your interests guide you, whether that’s choosing the right university, deciding on a major, or pursuing a new career path. Never be afraid to change course! The pieces will come together with time.

Here is a gem for you (you’ll learn this slang in time): Conventional success is NOT the goal. Life’s most sacred secret is that you always have control over your attitude, no matter the situation. Practice an attitude of gratitude, even on days that feel difficult. Take a moment to give thanks for the good things, celebrate the small wins, and honor the people who show up for you. Moments of challenge, even the ones that break your heart, will teach you resilience. Keep creating, too — whether it’s music, art, or any other form of self-expression. Lean into the things you truly want, and don’t get caught up in who others think you should be. Living life authentically will bring more fulfillment than anything you can gain by following someone else’s expectations or ideas of success.

Speaking of music — keep playing! Right now, music is a fun outlet, but one day it’s going to mean so much more. You’ll come to see that music isn’t just about beats or melodies; it’s about connection. Music has the power to bring people together, to heal, to help others find their own rhythm in life. You’ve been playing since fifth grade, so don’t stop now. Keep that energy alive and know that this part of your journey holds something truly transformative for both you and the people around you.

And hey, here’s a little advice that you may be happy to hear. Yes, our parents are strict when it comes to dating and girls, but don’t let that lead you to hold back. Say “yes” to the amazing girls who approach you, to the dances, and to the small moments that make high school special. It’s okay to feel shy but know that I remember you as far more handsome, charismatic, funny, and charming than I felt I was. Looking back, I wish I’d taken more social chances, even when they scared me. High school only happens once, so be open to it and enjoy it fully.

Above all, enjoy life and learn to give more along the way. Giving, whether it’s through kindness, music, or just being there for others, will bring a richness to your life that’s beyond anything you can imagine. There is so much beauty in store for you.

With love,
Taz